
Is there a harder emotion to define than love? Its forms are various and seemingly subjective, something you can only know when you feel it. Sarah Ruhl takes on the topic in her 2017 play How to Transcend a Happy Marriage now playing at Redtwist Theatre. Directed by Elizabeth Swanson, this quirky comedy drops audiences right into the dinner party conversation of two married couples discussing polyamory.
Jane (Monique Marshaun) has a new coworker involved in a polycule with two other men. After dinner, she regales her husband Michael (Joe Zarrow) and friends with this titillating tale. George (Tatiana Pavela) and her husband Paul (Carlos Travino) are fascinated by polyamorous Pip (Shaina Toledo). For George, this anecdote is nearly life changing. Though both couples laugh it off as some sort of fad, they hatch a plan to host the throuple–Pip and her two lovers Freddie (William Delforge) and David (Joshua Servantez) for New Year’s Eve.
Pip and her lovers are exactly the free spirits you’d assume they’d be. Ruhl sets up the classic old versus young divide on traditionalism and politics. The first act plays like a good episode of “And Just Like That”, (if that’s been your bag). Characters feel familiar because what they’re very politely discussing in person are the same things we see endlessly dissected online by think pieces. While Pip, Freddie and David are prodded with questions about their lifestyle, the sexual tension between Jane, Michael, George and Paul starts to heat up.
The evening has a profound effect on both couples. In typical Sarah Ruhl style, there’s a flirtation with the fantastic. Reality has a lot of constraints when it comes to storytelling and while a sitcom has to play by the rules, Sarah Ruhl does not. That’s what makes her plays such a sensory feast. One moment both feet are grounded in the reality of these two ordinary couples and the next, a fantastical twist that adds a bit of poetry to their unraveling.
How to Transcend a Happy Marriage feels like Sarah Ruhl’s version of Who’s Afraid of Virginia Woolf?, only in this version, it’s the younger set who win the “get the guests” game. Ruhl’s play is much gentler in its messaging but both plays explore enduring love from the perspectives of new love and worn in love. Ruhl adds in an extra layer of what feels like “kink” that asks its middle-aged audience “what’s the big deal if you like it and it’s not hurting anyone?”
Redtwist’s production is seductive in its presentation. The performance space is fittingly very intimate as this is a play about romantic and platonic intimacy. At times audiences feel like they could just grab an olive off the coffee table and join in the lively discussion. However, the barrier between audience and cast is clearly defined by stellar performances. Particularly Tatiana Pavela as George. Shaina Toledo also really embodies her counterculture character in a way that exudes both confidence and sexuality.
How to Transcend a Happy Marriage is a humorous but deep look at the ways in which we love and categorize love. Though mostly a play about heterosexual love, this feels like a queer play in that it asks a presumably straight audience to open their minds about sexuality and gender norms. Ruhl makes an elevated commentary on non-monogamous relationships from a place of curiosity instead of shlock, which is also how audiences should approach this work. Whatever your inclinations are, this play asks important questions about what it means to love and be loved, even if it looks different than you imagined.
Through September 21 at Redtwist Theatre. 1044 W Bryn Mawr Avenue. 773-728-7529 https://www.redtwisttheatre.org/
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If there's one play every American should see in their lifetimes, without a doubt it's Tennessee Williams' perennial classic A Streetcar Named Desire. It's the type of play that transcends theatre and stands alone as one of the best contributions to contemporary literature. Its complexities and social commentary make it worth revisiting. Whether Williams intended his 1947 Pulitzer Prize winner to be laden with symbolism and rich in themes, is a debate for English teachers. What's indisputable is that before 'Streetcar', few plays dared to push a mainstream Broadway audience quite so far.
Paramount Theatre presents a thrilling, and faithful production of A Streetcar Named Desire at the Copley Theatre. Co-directed by Jim Corti and Elizabeth Swanson, this production is absolutely worth a Metra ride to downtown Aurora. Who says all the great theater must be within the Chicago city limits?
You can't have a good 'Streetcar' without a good Blanche and Paramount certainly has that in actress Amanda Drinkall. Her performance as Blanche deviates from the cliched washed up Southern belle many associate with Streetcar and Cat on a Hot Tin Roof. It's not to say she's giving an understated performance either. Rather, Drinkall wisely interprets Blanche as foremost, an alcoholic, as well as someone in already in the throes of a nervous breakdown. Often Blanche is portrayed as being driven to madness, but here it seems she arrives in that condition. Drinkall has an uncanny way of shifting between Blanche's "illusion" and her mania with just a facial expression. Perhaps eeriest of all is that Drinkall is much younger than, say, Vivien Leigh, so her unraveling seems all the more tragic as these days mid-30s is hardly considered “old maid” territory.
Alina Taber as Stella and Casey Hoekstra as Stanley round out the principal casting and both turn in exceptional performances. Particularly Alina Taber - who brings a three dimensionality to Stella that may not be as developed in the script. Instead of the demure younger sister, Taber plays Stella with a bit more passion, and at times combativeness with Blanche.

Amanda Drinkall as Blanche DuBois in A Streetcar Named Desire at Paramount Theatre’s Copely Theatre.
Adding to this production's high quality are the lighting effects by Henry Toohey. The ways Blanche is lit during her gory monologues leave a haunting impression. Costumes created by Alan Richards and Kaia Mortenson are sexy but true to 1940s fashion as is the set design in general. Stella and Blanche are both styled in a way that gives this production authenticity as well as glamor.
Tennessee Williams' actual script is much more provocative than the classic Elia Kazan film with Marlon Brando and Vivien Leigh. What's always somewhat disappointing about the film version is that it cuts short one of Blanche's most heartbreaking monologues. Drinkall sinks her teeth into that monologue in this production. This by-the-books Streetcar is visceral, sexy and shocking just as Williams' intended it to be.
This is a play meant to be discussed. With each time you see it, there are always new ways to examine character motives and ask yourself the central question to any play - did the characters get what they want? There's probably no real right or wrong answer, but you'll just have to see this production for yourself in order to make up your mind.
Through April 21 at Paramount Theatre. 8 E. Galena Blvd. Aurora, IL 630-896-6666
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